Thanksgiving

 I had to actually go back and look at the blog to make sure I didn't already post about Thanksgiving, I can't believe it's been that long since I've been able to post something!

 We had Thanksgiving a few days early at Doug's parents house in Warda.  They have a pond with TONS of catfish. 

 Papaw got some food so Korbyn could feed and see the fish.  Memaw helped her throw it in the water.  When you throw it in they all swarm to the top to eat it, it's really neat!

 They had a house full of family which made it so nice.  Korbyn found her a tool set and played with memaw for a long time trying to hammer in pretend nails.

 Then we had Thanksgiving at my nanny and papaw's where I of course took zero pictures, then headed off towards San Saba again.  Colton's grandparents happen to live on the drive to San Saba so we stopped by on our way to play a game of croquet and visit a little bit.  Cousin Emalynn, memaw and Korbyn were trying to feed the huge rooster on the other side of the fence!  Then we headed back on the road with some yummy leftovers :)

Shy

 Now that Korbyn is getting older, her personality is really starting to come out.  She is extremely shy!  Which I guess doesn't surprise me, Colton and myself are pretty reserved unless we're really close to somebody.  She enjoys playing with other kids every chance she gets and plays with them well, but she also has no problem playing by herself.

 A couple of weekends ago Korbyn and I (Colton was at a fishing tournament) made the trip to Magnolia to visit my friend Yvonne for her birthday.  Her son and Korbyn are three months apart and she's due with her second, a little girl, in February!

 I think this is the first time she's eaten ribs before, but she ate them like a pro!  She sucked every ounce of meat off the bone.

I notice her shyness comes out with adults more, but once she warms up to you, she's your best friend.  Last night we went out to eat with a bunch of our friends and Korbyn, Cutter, and Brylee were the only kids, including baby Shelby which is Brylee's little sister.  They played really well together.  We were such a large group that they put us in a separate room that they usually use for parties, so when the kids got restless and wanted to run around we didn't stop them.  Our waiter was playing along with them and stuck his arms out wide and acted like he was chasing them...the next thing I know I see Korbyn running towards me screaming!  She was bawling!  The waiter had scared her so bad that she didn't leave my lap for the rest of the evening.  He felt so bad.  When we were paying he even came back up to her and tried to talk to her but she just buried her head in my shoulder and completely ignored him.

She's also becoming super attached to me.  I know a lot of it has to do with her age and eventually she'll grow out of it, I just never imagined she would be the shy one :)

Work

I've been working my butt off at the day school and have become so exhausted lately.  I have absolutely no energy to do anything but the bare necessities, and keeping my house clean is unfortunately near  the bottom.  I go into work at 7:30 and leave at 6 or 6:30 and maybe once or twice a week take a lunch.  I do get to take off every Wednesday, but that's when I make appointments and take care of everything else that I need to get done.  I feel like I never have time for anything.  I would really love to have a maid come in at least once a week to stay on top of the cleaning, I can handle the dishes and laundry and keeping everything picked up, but that's about it.  When I come home I immediately start to make supper and then have absolutely no interest in doing anything else except letting my body and mainly my brain relax.

Ok, complaining over with ;)  I love my job.  There is not a minute in the day when I'm here and just wish I could leave and go home.  This is actually starting to feel like my second home.  I really think it took me leaving to realize how much I enjoyed it.  The stress that made me give up the first time is still there, and comes in full force at times, but somehow this time it's different.  I know what stressors to expect and know how to handle them and also know that there IS a light at the end of the tunnel when I feel completely buried. 

These past four months I feel like I've really been tested.  I've had to deal with issues like reporting a suspected abuse case (still bothers me to this day), standing my ground with absurd parents who tell me they're going to punch a kid in the face while yelling in MY face, calling the ambulance to the center, and on top of everything we were put on corrective action a couple of weeks after I started (many things led up to this before I was back) which does not help with the stress.  Normally, our state rep will come out to do an inspection annually or if there's any type of investigation that needs to be conducted they'll come out if needed.  Well ever since we were put on corrective action our rep is at our center once, if not twice, a month.  And she's not a nice lady.  She's super strict about everything, so we're kept under a microscope for the next few months until this is all over with, then I'll be able to breath again!

But...the kids.  The kids make it all better.  I know that they're a big reason for why I love what I do.  There's no way in heck that I could manage everything at my job while working in a building full of adults.  Whenever I need a break, I sneak off into one of the rooms and just hold a baby, or read a toddler a book, or my favorite thing, go and give my baby girl a hug and a kiss.  When I start weighing the pros and cons, the pros definitely outweigh the cons this time around :)

Happy Birthday!

 Even though I'm three days late, happy birthday my sweet Korbyn Ruthie! 

This year has been amazing watching her grow up from a baby into a toddler.  She can potty, she can communicate, she helps around the house, and she loves learning new things.

The church secretary gave her these play dress up clothes for her birthday.  It came with a tiara, a wand, a skirt, and wings.  I don't think she's ever gotten fully dressed up like this but she loved it and just wore it around the house for the longest time.  I was trying to teach her how to say "abracadabra" with the wand, she gets close but it's so cute how she draws out all the "a's."  Yesterday morning we were getting ready and she laughed and said "mommy I pooted!" I said "you did?  well what do we say?" she replied "aaabaaacaaadaabaaa!"  I laughed so hard.

 She is SO into babies right now.  About two weeks ago Colton and I were watching her play with her babies and I very jokingly (seriously, VERY jokingly) said "Korbyn, do you want a baby brother?" and she didn't even hesitate, she just said "noooo, sister!"  Colton looked at me and he said "you've been teaching her to say that haven't you?"  After I stopped laughing I promised that I have never even asked her that question before, let alone teach her how to respond!  So we have no idea where she got that from.  I don't even know if she understands what "brother" or "sister" mean.  A while back ago I was naming all of the people she knew and then saying if they were a boy or a girl so she would start to grasp that concept, but I've never gone over brother or sister with her...very strange, but I guess she knows what she wants :)  But to this day we'll joke around with her and just ask her out of nowhere and she gives the same response every time!

 This past weekend we went to San Saba for opening weekend with my grandparents and my dad.  It was nice to get away and not have to worry about anything other than just relaxing.  Saturday morning my grandpa shot a deer so Colton was helping him clean it, Korbyn enjoyed watching for a little bit then got bored.

 My grandparents really enjoyed spending so much time with her.  She definitely kept us entertained all weekend!

 For her birthday we went into town to Harry's, which is a really huge boot shop.  We bought her her very first pair of boots.  In the store I was joking around and said "ooo Korbyn, those are some nice stompers."  So now she doesn't even call them boots, they're stompers.

 She got a little make up kit for her birthday and daddy enjoyed putting it on her.  That thing kept her busy for quite some time, even though she got lipstick all across her face, she had a blast!

 After dinner I was washing the dishes and cleaning up the kitchen when Korbyn walked by and said "I help, dishes!"  So I pulled a chair up for her and wouldn't you know she actually was a big help?!  She rinsed all the dishes and put them in the drainer all by herself!  If I was taking too long washing something she would grab a cup from the drainer and just rinse it over and over again.

Happy birthday my love!  I look forward to another year of watching you grow :)

Party/Halloween

 

Since our little Ruthie was born on opening weekend, we celebrate her birthday a week before and throw a costume party for her.   It's a lot of work and would not be possible if it weren't for the help of both memaw's and papaw's.  We really are lucky to have grandparents that love her so much and are willing to always help us out in any way.

My friend Yvonne just started making cakes.  I sent her a picture of what I'd like her to do and she was able to make it identical to the one picture!  It looked AMAZING!  I told her anytime she wants to go in the cake making business you just give me a call ;) 

 We decided to go as the Flintstone family this year.  I'm surprised Colton was so willing to wear his costume this time, which was nothing more than a thin dress!  I actually had to get Korbyn's made through Etsy.  Everything as Pebbles through party stores and costume shops looked nothing like the actual Pebbles, and this lady was the only one who made it to look like the real deal.  Surprisingly, I got way too many compliments on my red wig.  Even my grandpa told me that I looked good as a red head and it made me look younger...how old do I look?!?!

 

 Of course that Monday after her party she got some virus where she was running a low fever and just felt super cruddy.  I guess she partied too hard :)

 At school they had a little Halloween party, which also happened to be her last day in the 18-24 month room. 

 Colton was more excited about trick or treating this year, he was actually looking forward to it because she was older and could walk by herself and hold her bucket...so we thought.  I promised Sam that we would come to her house and then we figured we would just hit the loop in the neighborhood that her house is in.  We stopped at maybe two other houses then were ready to go.  She got scared of a lot of the costumes this time and so she wanted to be held and she was getting so sleepy already. 

 We got ready at memaw and papaw doug's and then stopped at my parents before we headed home.  Thankfully we didn't score much candy this year, because we all know who would have ended up eating it!

Smarty pants

 I'm sure I'm a little bias when it comes to the intelligence of my one and only child, but this girl seriously amazes me at how fast she is learning things.  We were over at my mom's one evening with some of my nieces and nephews and they were playing shape bingo.  Colton was actually the one playing but he said every time he would ask her where the color and the shape was she would point to it with no problem!

I have a game on my kindle and it gives four shapes on the screen, some of them repeated but a different color.  Then it will ask aloud something like "find the blue diamond" and although there may be a purple diamond along with a blue diamond, she'll get it right every time.   I know there are tons of kids out there that can properly play a shapes game, but it seems like just a few weeks ago she couldn't recognize them and now she's a pro and not even two yet!

She is even putting several words together to form sentences.  Just a few minutes ago I asked her where her baby was and she "I don't know where baby is?!"  It took me by surprise at how clear she said it.  We can basically ask her anything and know that we'll get an answer from her...it has made life SO much easier when we can communicate!

 And then of course she just loves being a good ol' kid and playing in the dirt.  We were out at Fedor and I gave her a piece of broken pipe (in the picture) and that kept her busy for almost half an hour!

 She definitely keeps us on our toes and keeps us laughing!

The Dentist

 Last Wednesday Korbyn had her very first dentist appointment.  I was extremely nervous because I just knew she was going to flip out.  My niece came with us that day because she wasn't feeling well so her mom asked if she could hang out with us that day.  It turned out great because she was such a big helper with Korbyn all day long and was our photographer!

 This is the most amazing dentist office by the way.  Everyone was so friendly, nice, and patient and I know that played a huge role in the success of her appointment.  They even have a magnet board in the waiting room where they put the "new tadpoles."

 We went into the room and the hygienist pulled out a stool and told Korbyn to come sit down so she could take her picture.  I was thinking to myself "ya right lady, good luck with that, my daughter doesn't do pictures."  Wouldn't you know this little ham sat there so well and let her snap away all while smiling, looking at the camera, AND saying "cheese!"

 As soon as the dentist came into the room she got very shy, which I completely expected.  But her laying back and not saying a word while he brushed her teeth and looked in her mouth for several minutes I was not expecting.  She got freaked out just for a few seconds about half way through, but then calmed down and let him finish the exam no problem!

 Then she got to pick out stickers which was her favorite part!

 Her appointment was over around 10 a.m. and I had my appointment at noon.  We were right next to Petco and Lowe's so we decided to kill some time before we grabbed lunch.  We went to Petco first and Korbyn had so much fun looking at all the different pets.  We then headed over Lowe's where we got a shop vac that Colton had been asking for.  When we get out to the car I'm looking for my keys and panic when they're not in the same pocket that they're always in inside my purse.  I look into the window and sure enough they're still in the ignition with the doors locked!  I google locksmith and just call the first one that comes up.  There goes $60 to open my car...grrrr!

 So after having to wait around for the locksmith we are now at 11:30 a.m. and I'm starting to get a little nervous because number one, I hate being late.  Number two, I know that my appointment is all the way across town.  Number three, I know that if I don't stop and get them something to eat before we go to my appointment Korbyn will be extremely cranky.  Thankfully there's a Carl's Jr next to Lowe's and I swing through there to grab them some lunch and I figure they can eat it while we're driving across town (through construction) to get to my dentist. 

According to my gps on my phone and in my car I'm supposed to be right where I need to be, yet I see no dentist office.  At this point I've already turned around once looking for the place.  I get on the phone and call them asking for directions and during my phone call Korbyn starts kicking and saying "tee tee!"  The receptionist proceeds to tell me "oh we're right next to Carl's Jr. in the shopping center with Lowe's."  I could have screamed and thrown my gps out the window.  I pull over as soon as I can so Korbyn can pee and when I get her out the poor thing had an accident in her car seat.  Thankfully I came prepared with an extra set of clothes and I pulled the bottom lining of her car seat off and laid a towel down for her to sit on.  Not only do I walk into the dentist office late, I'm also already getting looks from all the receptionists and hygienists for having kids with me.  I know, I know, I'm the moron mom who brought two kids to a dentist appointment but the reason it irritates me so bad is that I called two days before my appointment and asked if I could bring Korbyn with me AND offered to reschedule my appointment.  The receptionist on the phone was so nice and said that it won't be a problem at all...well she must have been off the day of my appointment! 

I've never felt more uncomfortable in my life.  They were so rude!  Not a single person smiled at her or made her feel welcome, so of course she started crying when I had to go into a room to do my x-rays.  I figured someone would hold or comfort her besides my 10 year old niece.  When I was in the chair I just about pulled that little blue bib off and threw it in their faces and stormed out when one of the receptionists came barging in with Korbyn on her hip, her face smeared with tears, and said "see!  there she is now you need to be quiet!"  It took everything I had not to get up and just leave and if I wasn't in dire need of an exam I would have.  I held her for a little bit and then she held my hand when the dentist was examining my mouth.  She did just fine after that.  She was probably terrified of all the rude people...kids can SO sense that kind of stuff.

 We then had to go grocery shopping...talk about a long day.  We get into the store and she sees the carousel and says "I ride it?"  So I dug up some change and asked her which pony she wanted to ride and she said "bue!"  I was cracking up the entire time because she never once moved from that pose that she's in and just kept going round and round.  Korbyn had an excellent experience at her first dentist appointment, I just hope she continues to act that way each time.  Mommy's appointment...not so much!